Friday, 5 August 2016

my daddy said





My daddy said never let a girl know how much you love her
My daddy said never fight for a girl
My daddy said never cry because of a girl
My daddy said if possible never fall in love with a girl

But I was stubborn and decided to follow my heart
Things can’t be that bad?
You came to prove my dad right
You came to prove me wrong

 Banji Coker

song of the week



the song of this week is The Script's the end where I begin from their 2008 album The script.
what I love about this song? its the sincerity of the song, the honesty and the portrayed vulnerability, the fact where they I tell whoever is trying to bring them down that they have already hit rock bottom and the only way to go is up.
one of the bars that keeps ringing in my head is the part where they said "try to break my heart, well its broke, tried  to hang me high well I'm choked, wanted to rain on me well I'm soaked, its the end where I begin" and "Now I'm alive, and my ghosts are gone, I've shed all the pain, I've been holding on ,The cure for a heart ,Is to move along, is to move along, So move along, What don't kill a heart
Only makes it strong "

this song is really inspiring, its something to listen to when you going through a rough time

confused






Anger and range
Words said, words regretted
drifted to sleep
woke up by the feeling

 listened to the music
then my heart decided to speak
its saying I should try to see things from your angle
now I feel insensitive

 I love you
You love me
I was angry
I’m sorry

 But she still not sure, she wants to be with me

Banji Coker

never enough






Words were never enough
he was never good enough
he could never do enough
Love was never enough

Nothing is never enough
He doesn’t know what to do
To convince her
That his love should be enough for her

 
But then again that is never enough

 

Banji Coker

Thursday, 4 August 2016

she said






she said don't trust me
but I'm too trusting
she says she is bad for me
but her perfection is all I see

I love her flaws
its cute she is insecure
she smiles at my naivety
she says banji you  know nothing

she says don't trust me
this is a fair warning
but girl I love you
I cant help it , I'm sorry

ps. I love the fact that I cant




Banji Coker


Wednesday, 3 August 2016

my developmental psychology assignment (lev vygotsky)



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The social development of Lev Vygotsky states that social interaction precedes development. Lev Vygotsky stressed in his theories that social interaction set the foundation for cognitive development.

Lev Vygotsky believed that humans are born with basic abilities for cognitive development, these abilities are

·         Attention

·         Sensation

·         Perception

·         Memory

Later on after interaction this basic abilities develops into complex mental process, Lev Vygotsky talked about the intellectual tools like memory mnemonics and memory maps which allow children to use basic mental functions more effectively and this is determined by culture.
Social influences on cognitive development

Lev Vygotsky believed that even cognitive task that are performed alone is influenced by beliefs, values and intellectual tools provided by the cultural background that the individual is exposed to. Lev Vygotsky said that important learning by a child is as a result of social interaction with a skilful tutor, this could occur through verbal instruction or actions of the tutor then internalised the information using it to guide or regulate their performance.
More Knowledgeable Other(MKO)

The term More Knowledgeable Other(MKO) refers to the person that has more knowledge about a particular topic, aspect or concept than the learner. The MKO doesn’t necessarily be an older person, it just has to be a person with more knowledge than the learner.
Zone of Proximal Development

Zone of proximal development is another concept of Lev Vygotsky, it deals with the difference between what a child can achieve independently and what he can achieve with some guidance. Lev Vygotsky believed that the zone of proximal development is where sensitive instruction should be given.

 Lev Vygotsky believed that interaction with peers is an effective way of developing skills and strategies, Lev Vygotsky believed that language develops from social interactions and communication purpose.

Vygotsky viewed language as a man’s greatest tool, a means for communicating with the outside world. Lev Vygotsky believed that language plays two important roles in cognitive development.

·         It is the main means by which adults transmit information to children.

·         Language itself becomes a very powerful tool of intellectual adaptation.

Lev Vygotsky said there are three forms of language

·         Social speech which is external communication used to talk to others, this happens from 2yrs old

·         Private speech, which is directed to the self and serves an intellectual function, this is from 3yrs old

·         and finally private speech goes underground, diminishing in audibility as it takes on a self-regulating function and is transformed into silent inner speech this occurs from age 7

Tuesday, 2 August 2016

he is lost



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He had his whole life mapped out

he drew out the plan

he was determined

he was confident

he poured his heart out

he had his head in the game

he was ready for the next step

he could feel it in the air

 

just then, confusion sets in

he doesn’t know what he is doing

 nothing seems to be working

he has run out of ideas

what is it I’m doing wrong?

What I’m I missing?

What can’t I see?

Those are questions he asked himself

 

The future doesn’t look bright anymore

Is he wasting is time?

He can’t give up?

He is lost.

 

        Banji Coker